How To Change Your Dating What Ifs to Something More Positive
1. What if they don’t like me?
Well, first, the beauty of dating is not based only on if they like you. Remember, find someone who suits YOU. A better and more uplifting way to look at it is, do you like them? Focus on their character and ask yourself if you would want to be friends with them regardless of if you are dating or not. This will help with the pressures that come with dating and you can relax and enjoy your time.
2.What if there's no second date?
I like to see this one as a blessing in disguise. Because think about it. Would you rather go on a second date with someone who doesn’t have an interest in you? Hopefully not. But the person who is going to be right for you will want a second date and will continue to want to see you.
What if I say something off?
The truth is we all have moments where we say something we didn’t mean to. Or, maybe become tense when around the person we find attractive. And that is all okay. So instead of putting yourself down or reacting to what you said, you can tell yourself that it may happen and that is okay. And think of it as a learning experience rather than a dating failure.